Feeling forced to ask family to stand

[shergreg]

Hello, so we have picked the place, the date, not told anyone yet....I feel forced to ask my sister to stand with me and I really don't want her there, at all. I know it sounds so terrible, we haven't gotten along really in years. How do we deal with this. Please help.

[lcswalker]

It's your day and decisions about who should be a part of it are really up to you and your fiance. When you look back on your wedding 5, 10, 25 years from now, will you be happy that your sister was a part of it or annoyed?